A Guy Sent Me Binary Code to See If I Was Human
So this actually happened. A guy on OnlyFans — his name is Dave, and if you know a Dave, it could be him, but there are a lot of Daves out there — sent me a message in binary. Zeros and ones. To test whether I was a real person or a bot.
And honestly? It's kind of genius.
The Dave Test
Here's how it went down. I had sent a little surprise to my DMs, and Dave replies with something like, "Piper is the sweetheart, but this AI versus people controlling the account kind of sucks." Then he tells me he sent binary to another model — a free account — and:
"It responded like instantly, lol." — Dave
So he figured it out. A real person sees zeros and ones and goes, "Bro, did you drop your credit card number on me?" An AI answers immediately because it speaks binary. It's like Morse code or Braille — most humans just can't read it on sight.
I actually tested this while we were recording. I sent binary to Claude, and it told me to stop. Got flagged. So the bots are catching on too.
The Guy Behind the Girl
This whole thing opened up a bigger conversation about what's real online. Master was there at the beginning of the internet — the forums, the BBS boards — and guys were pretending to be women even back then. Not for money. For attention.
"They had more attraction. More people talking to them." — Marian
On OnlyFans now, it's industrialized. Girls from the Philippines, Mexico — or more accurately, guys managing accounts with a bank of pre-shot content. The "girlfriend experience" is a team of people cycling through DMs. And the girls who actually do it themselves? They can manage maybe five guys who pay enough to get real attention.
Here's a tip for the guys: real girls don't answer you back instantly. If you're getting nonstop messages, that's a bot. If she takes a while, forgets to reply, sends you the same photo that's on her profile — well, that last one is a red flag, but at least it's a human red flag.
Catfishing on Dating Apps
Master and I are on Bumble BFF, Feeld, and a few other apps — looking for friends, couples with similar lifestyles. And we keep running into the same thing: profiles that look like real women in couples, but something is off.
The tells are there if you're paying attention:
- She sends you the exact same photos from her profile when you ask for a selfie. A real woman has a thousand photos on her phone.
- She keeps talking about her boyfriend's interests. "My boyfriend likes rock and roll. My boyfriend likes this restaurant." That's a man telling you what he likes through a fake profile.
- She never wants to meet. She mirrors your life perfectly — similar age gap, similar interests — but there's always a reason it can't happen this week.
"It's a man alone, posing as a woman in a relationship. They don't want to meet you. They just want the interaction." — Marian
And I get it. Master made the point on Patreon that these are probably married men, older, lonely — and they can't just walk into a bar and have people talk to them the way a woman can. A guy sitting alone at Blue Water Cafe spends the night alone. A girl sitting there? She has options coming to her.
So they create a persona. It's sad, but it's part of the deal on these apps. If you spend enough time on there, you'll encounter them.
The Book Review That Got Me Thinking
We got a new Amazon review from someone named Michiel — five stars, Kindle format, and here's the important part: she didn't know who I was. She'd never heard of Piper Blush. She's just a submissive woman in a 24/7 relationship looking for relevant books, and she found mine.
That's exactly what I wanted. The book reaching people who don't know the backstory.
Her one critique was that she lost engagement in the middle — too much about the work hustle, not enough about the bond with Master. And I understand that, but here's the thing:
"Submission is holistic. It's a whole thing you do. It's a whole way of life. It's 24/7, but it's not 24/7 sexual. For me, it's in everything in my life." — Marian
The way Master trained me in front of the camera, how he shaped my work, the mentorship — that IS submission. It's not separate from the bedroom stuff. And I keep meeting women who say, "In bed you can do whatever you want to me, but he won't tell me how to wear my hair." That's not submission. That's just being lazy in bed and calling it a lifestyle.
"The truth is always more complex than the lie." — Marian
My book is complex because my life is complex. A lie would be one thing — just the sex, just the BDSM, just the romance. The truth has all of it, including the marketing and the hustle, because that's part of who I am.
Gen Z, the 4B Movement, and Why Young People Aren't Dating
Master and I were listening to Radio Canada in bed — as we do — and they were talking about Gen Z and feminism. Specifically, how being single isn't seen as failure anymore.
The stats are interesting: Gen Z men are trending more conservative, Gen Z women more liberal. They literally can't find each other.
"64% of celibate Gen Z women say politics influence their decision." — from US and Canada data
There's even a movement from Asia called 4B: no dating, no sex, no marriage, no kids. Four nos. That's a lot of nos.
I think it's fine as a personal choice — women should do whatever they want. But I do wonder: are you saying no for yourself, or for society? Because physical touch matters. Master and I touch each other constantly. You need that connection.
And here's my solution for the mismatch: maybe the Gen Z guys who want traditional, submissive women need to start dating cougars. And the Gen Z women can wait for Gen Alpha.
"There, I fixed it." — Marian
If any of this resonated — the authenticity thing, the submission thing, the "what even is real anymore" thing — I wrote a whole book about it. It's called Why Submissive Women Are Happier and it's my truth, messy and complex and all. Get your copy here.
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